Oh Monday's, even when you stay home with your kids, there is just something crazy about a Monday. You start thinking of everything you have to do during the week. Plus to be starting out with a sick kid, this is not going to be my week, let me tell you. On top of everything, I start my part time job tonight. I am officially back in the hair business, although very part time. Fortunately, I am licensed in a profession that allows me to still be home during the day and work a few evenings a week. Along with a husband who likes me to be home during the day with the baby and helps to make it all work out.
Monday's are the day you figure out which days you're going to run your errand's, clean the house, what will be for dinner for each day of the week, play dates and all the other things you need to do every week. Plus, you also have to find time for yourself, your spouse or significant other, friends, family and of course the kids. Even when you stay home with your child, you still have to make time for them among all the other tasks that come with being home. It can be a little overwhelming and that is where my "To Do List" comes in. It helps prioritize my tasks and ensures I wont forget something.
While I will never LOVE Monday's at least it's the one day of the week where I can justify sleeping until Ella wakes me up. Hey it is Monday, and it's better than getting up with Nick at 5:30a.m. like I normally would. So glad Ella usually sleeps past 7:30am.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Sick Kids
Ella caught Nick's cold. We were pretty sure it was going to happen, but it's still a bummer that she is showing the starting symptoms. When your child is sick, it just stinks. They don't feel very good, you feel bad for them. It really is an all around crappy situation. Although at least we aren't alone as parents. Every one's kids get sick and all parents feel bad when it happens.
Ella started coughing today, and it wasn't the fake cough she does that apparently, is soooo funny. This is an involuntary hacking that just makes me sad to hear and it makes my throat sore just listening to her. The only thing I am hoping for is that it doesn't last long. I really can not complain, up until now, she has had one cold in her first 15 months. I am so lucky we have not had to deal with any thing else.
I know it builds their immune systems, helps to protect them as they get older, that it's good to expose them to germs and all that. Ella is a frequent member of the lick the shopping cart handle club. I'm usually OK with that, meaning I don't freak out about it. Hey, my child doesn't go to day care and isn't exposed to other kids that often. She is around people a lot, but most adults don't try to share her cup, although she offers, frequently. So I don't really mind exposing her to germs in our every day lives. Now, if some kid with a cold steals her toy, that was in her mouth and puts it in their mouth, she will not be getting it back to chew on.
At least I get to take care of her when she isn't feeling well, who knows, maybe I will actually get some cuddle time for once from my amazingly independent baby.
Ella started coughing today, and it wasn't the fake cough she does that apparently, is soooo funny. This is an involuntary hacking that just makes me sad to hear and it makes my throat sore just listening to her. The only thing I am hoping for is that it doesn't last long. I really can not complain, up until now, she has had one cold in her first 15 months. I am so lucky we have not had to deal with any thing else.
I know it builds their immune systems, helps to protect them as they get older, that it's good to expose them to germs and all that. Ella is a frequent member of the lick the shopping cart handle club. I'm usually OK with that, meaning I don't freak out about it. Hey, my child doesn't go to day care and isn't exposed to other kids that often. She is around people a lot, but most adults don't try to share her cup, although she offers, frequently. So I don't really mind exposing her to germs in our every day lives. Now, if some kid with a cold steals her toy, that was in her mouth and puts it in their mouth, she will not be getting it back to chew on.
At least I get to take care of her when she isn't feeling well, who knows, maybe I will actually get some cuddle time for once from my amazingly independent baby.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Technology: Helpful or Hindering?
Our garage door is broken, well actually the opener is broken. Out of no where, it wont stay closed and when it opens it goes really far up the tracks and almost hits the opener light if it wasn't for that bolt they stick in the main rail to prevent that very action. It just started last night. We are pretty sure it's an adjustment problem, but as Nick and I are not in any kind of a garage door profession we don't know how to fix it. So a repair man will be coming out today.
While I like that I don't have to manually open my garage door every time I go some where or arrive home, I have to wonder, exactly how helpful are these technologies, when most people don't know how to fix them. You could look at it as you are paying for the convenience of these technologies. The fridge for example, when it acts up you have no idea why or what to do about it. Same with most major appliances that do make our lives easier. It just gets so spendy when they all decide to act up at once. Cars are another modern day convenient technology that most people cannot fix on their own, especially as cars become more advanced. Phones, computers, TV's, music and sound systems, now more than likely, we just go buy a new one for what you might pay to fix the old one. We did that when we thought our old fridge was dying, we just bought a new one.
The problem is, we then become hindered by these everyday technologies because when they act up, you have to find, hire and pay for someone to fix it. You cant use it until they come out to fix it, which sometimes can be days. Also what you may end up paying for that service, not that the workers don't deserve to be compensated, they are performing a service. However some repair men can and have been known to take advantage of a situation because the customer isn't knowledgeable on the subject or object they are getting repaired.
Now I am not voting for going back to a real "ice box", horses and buggies and candlelight but it does make you think about how much we pay for our modern day conviences, and not just with money.
While I like that I don't have to manually open my garage door every time I go some where or arrive home, I have to wonder, exactly how helpful are these technologies, when most people don't know how to fix them. You could look at it as you are paying for the convenience of these technologies. The fridge for example, when it acts up you have no idea why or what to do about it. Same with most major appliances that do make our lives easier. It just gets so spendy when they all decide to act up at once. Cars are another modern day convenient technology that most people cannot fix on their own, especially as cars become more advanced. Phones, computers, TV's, music and sound systems, now more than likely, we just go buy a new one for what you might pay to fix the old one. We did that when we thought our old fridge was dying, we just bought a new one.
The problem is, we then become hindered by these everyday technologies because when they act up, you have to find, hire and pay for someone to fix it. You cant use it until they come out to fix it, which sometimes can be days. Also what you may end up paying for that service, not that the workers don't deserve to be compensated, they are performing a service. However some repair men can and have been known to take advantage of a situation because the customer isn't knowledgeable on the subject or object they are getting repaired.
Now I am not voting for going back to a real "ice box", horses and buggies and candlelight but it does make you think about how much we pay for our modern day conviences, and not just with money.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Why Woman Need Girlfriends
We all know we need girlfriends. A girlfriend can be a sister, cousin, aunt, mother, or most often someone you are not related to but you could not live without. They make us laugh, pick us up when we're down, give advice, listen to our problems, offer hugs and comfort. Now I know significant others can do this too, but really it's just not the same. I know, I know your husband is your best friend, mine is too, sort of.
While I can talk to my husband about anything, he is still a man and therefore lacks understanding in being a woman. I need someone who can give me a tampon when we are out to dinner because her period is the same time as mine. That just happens when you spend a lot of time with another girl. (Of course during menopause, you'll be having hot flashes together, and hopefully she has an extra fan in that bag for you too.)
I need another woman to laugh with me about the things our husbands do and that while we will never understand it, at least we won't understand together. Another reason why women need girlfriends is when you want to vent and complain about a situation going on in your life, a man will try to fix it and offer suggestions as to what you could do. Well, that is not what we want when we are bitching about something. We just want someone to agree with us and tell us, that really blows. After that we're usually over it and a solution isn't really needed.
While I have a good time with my husband, I never laugh as hard with him as I do with the girls. With your girlfriends you can just look at each other with the unspoken language that we have and before you know it your stomach hurts like you just did 500 sit ups and you are crying like you did on your wedding day, just from laughing. Usually it's over something really stupid too. One of my very best friends I have known for 25 years, and I'm only 27, that is a long time, a lot of memories. We can literally say two words, or just a gesture or facial expression and on come the giggles, because we know what the other is referring to. Like the time I ripped my leather pants, right before school, right up the back seam, why did I wear a thong that day? Oh yeah, they were leather pants!
The truth of the matter is women need other women, we need time with other women. Now there are all sorts of scientific information to back that up. It's something about releasing happy chemicals in our brains, I don't remember exactly, you can Google it if you really want to know. But I know there were several studies on the subject, seriously Google it. We all could have told the study people that we just feel better after girl time. You don't have to keep an air of mystery with your girlfriends, like you are "supposed" to do with your man according to "experts". Sorry honey, I left the bathroom door open again. Apparently, that's a no-no. Not girls, not only do you want to share everything with them, they want to hear about it. (At least, that rings true with the girls I know.) Weird pains and other stuff, sex, kids, everything, I mean come on, you don't go to your husband to talk about sex. It's way more fun to talk about it with your girlfriends.
Lastly, if you need to complain about your significant other, you're not going to complain to them, you're going to complain to your friends. What about "Girl's Night" you cant have a girl's night without the girls. There are probably thousands of other reasons why women need girlfriends but those are my top reasons. Now what are your reasons?
While I can talk to my husband about anything, he is still a man and therefore lacks understanding in being a woman. I need someone who can give me a tampon when we are out to dinner because her period is the same time as mine. That just happens when you spend a lot of time with another girl. (Of course during menopause, you'll be having hot flashes together, and hopefully she has an extra fan in that bag for you too.)
I need another woman to laugh with me about the things our husbands do and that while we will never understand it, at least we won't understand together. Another reason why women need girlfriends is when you want to vent and complain about a situation going on in your life, a man will try to fix it and offer suggestions as to what you could do. Well, that is not what we want when we are bitching about something. We just want someone to agree with us and tell us, that really blows. After that we're usually over it and a solution isn't really needed.
While I have a good time with my husband, I never laugh as hard with him as I do with the girls. With your girlfriends you can just look at each other with the unspoken language that we have and before you know it your stomach hurts like you just did 500 sit ups and you are crying like you did on your wedding day, just from laughing. Usually it's over something really stupid too. One of my very best friends I have known for 25 years, and I'm only 27, that is a long time, a lot of memories. We can literally say two words, or just a gesture or facial expression and on come the giggles, because we know what the other is referring to. Like the time I ripped my leather pants, right before school, right up the back seam, why did I wear a thong that day? Oh yeah, they were leather pants!
The truth of the matter is women need other women, we need time with other women. Now there are all sorts of scientific information to back that up. It's something about releasing happy chemicals in our brains, I don't remember exactly, you can Google it if you really want to know. But I know there were several studies on the subject, seriously Google it. We all could have told the study people that we just feel better after girl time. You don't have to keep an air of mystery with your girlfriends, like you are "supposed" to do with your man according to "experts". Sorry honey, I left the bathroom door open again. Apparently, that's a no-no. Not girls, not only do you want to share everything with them, they want to hear about it. (At least, that rings true with the girls I know.) Weird pains and other stuff, sex, kids, everything, I mean come on, you don't go to your husband to talk about sex. It's way more fun to talk about it with your girlfriends.
Lastly, if you need to complain about your significant other, you're not going to complain to them, you're going to complain to your friends. What about "Girl's Night" you cant have a girl's night without the girls. There are probably thousands of other reasons why women need girlfriends but those are my top reasons. Now what are your reasons?
Monday, January 23, 2012
Minnesota Snow
For the first time this winter, I actually needed to shovel!!! I am in shock. It's Minnesota and January is almost over and this is the first real snow fall (sort of) of the season. It's only a few inches that has accumulated. This is unheard of for Minnesota. I actually really enjoy snow and have been thoroughly disappointed at the lack thereof. We had freezing rain yesterday and I almost fell on my fanny a few times while shoveling but at least it's good exercise.
About a month ago, we bought Ella a baby size sled. She also got snow pants and a thick winter jacket for her birthday, all of which we are yet to use. After we bought her sled, I was pulling her around in the living room, no joke, we made trails in the carpet. Well pulling her around the dead grass covered yard wasn't an option because I'm pretty sure most of the neighbors think I'm "special" anyway. I am so excited that there is a little snow for us to go play in for a little while. This was the first winter since having her where we could really enjoy it. The next few days are supposed to be warmer, upper 30's or so. I know that is not that warm to most people but that is plenty warm for us. So excited to go outside and play.
I also cant wait to see the look on her face playing with snow for the first time!
About a month ago, we bought Ella a baby size sled. She also got snow pants and a thick winter jacket for her birthday, all of which we are yet to use. After we bought her sled, I was pulling her around in the living room, no joke, we made trails in the carpet. Well pulling her around the dead grass covered yard wasn't an option because I'm pretty sure most of the neighbors think I'm "special" anyway. I am so excited that there is a little snow for us to go play in for a little while. This was the first winter since having her where we could really enjoy it. The next few days are supposed to be warmer, upper 30's or so. I know that is not that warm to most people but that is plenty warm for us. So excited to go outside and play.
I also cant wait to see the look on her face playing with snow for the first time!
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Simple Beauty Tips
Every woman should be able to look her best without having to spend hours in the bathroom. So I have a few make up tips that I like to use every day that are still very natural looking. They take just a few minutes with your everyday make up routine. Of course, the time every woman puts into her make up varies. They can be added to the most basic make up application or one for a night out.
First, every woman should own white eyeliner. The reason is not to use it on the upper lid but to line the inside of your lower lid. Not only will your eyes look bigger after you do this, they will also look brighter, whiter and awake. Yes, this trick will actually make you look like you aren't as tired you really are. While black eyeliner is very dramatic, it makes your eyes smaller when applied to the inner lower lid. If you like to have black on the bottom, but want the brighter, bigger look white eyeliner delivers, put the black eyeliner in your lower lash line instead. I wear white eyeliner on my inner lower lid every day. It takes 30 seconds, but I am never told I look tired. Try it out and you be the judge. You can get white eyeliner at most places that sell cosmetics. I found a white pencil for ninety-seven cents by the brand NYC. It works just fine, it doesn't need to be the most expensive, unless you are sensitive to make up.
Tip number two is to apply your bronzer just under your jaw line. Why? It will help the appearance of your jaw line and make it more defined, double chins any one??? This will help, especially in photos. Be sure to not go overboard and make sure to blend, this is a subtle fix, not surgery. Just load up your blush brush, tilt your chin up and just sweep the brush back and forth a few times along the entire jaw bone.
Continuing with tricks with your bronzer, you want to have a little color and make your nose look a little smaller? Apply a little bronzer on the sides of your nose and a quick dust over the top of your nose without re-loading the brush. If you want to blend it out over to your cheeks and give them a little color go ahead, I do it every day.
Lastly use blush as a contour for under your cheek bones and a highlighter on the top of your cheek bone. I like a shimmery light pink for a highlighter and it should work well on most skin tones. With the blush, get a small amount on your brush and apply under your cheek bone, curving it up slightly as you get closer to the hairline. Now with the highlighter start just below the outer corner of your eye and gently brush on the highlighter working your way toward the apple of your cheek. (I like to use my fingers for the highlighter.) If you smile, you will see you are applying it to the part of the cheek that fills out and lifts up. If you don't like to use pinks, a very light gold, or creamy color will also work as a highlighter, the main thing is it should barely be a shade lighter than your skin tone. The point is that by applying make up a little darker than your skin, you will make the area recede (your nose, double chin and below the cheek bone). The highlighter being slightly lighter than your skin will make that area more prominent. The combination of the two will give you some killer looking cheek bones. (Although not to the extent of Cruella DeVil, I promise.)
As with all make up application techniques they take practice before you will be comfortable and efficient with them. They sound a little more intimidating than they really are. I really hope every one tries the white eyeliner, it will amaze you.
First, every woman should own white eyeliner. The reason is not to use it on the upper lid but to line the inside of your lower lid. Not only will your eyes look bigger after you do this, they will also look brighter, whiter and awake. Yes, this trick will actually make you look like you aren't as tired you really are. While black eyeliner is very dramatic, it makes your eyes smaller when applied to the inner lower lid. If you like to have black on the bottom, but want the brighter, bigger look white eyeliner delivers, put the black eyeliner in your lower lash line instead. I wear white eyeliner on my inner lower lid every day. It takes 30 seconds, but I am never told I look tired. Try it out and you be the judge. You can get white eyeliner at most places that sell cosmetics. I found a white pencil for ninety-seven cents by the brand NYC. It works just fine, it doesn't need to be the most expensive, unless you are sensitive to make up.
Tip number two is to apply your bronzer just under your jaw line. Why? It will help the appearance of your jaw line and make it more defined, double chins any one??? This will help, especially in photos. Be sure to not go overboard and make sure to blend, this is a subtle fix, not surgery. Just load up your blush brush, tilt your chin up and just sweep the brush back and forth a few times along the entire jaw bone.
Continuing with tricks with your bronzer, you want to have a little color and make your nose look a little smaller? Apply a little bronzer on the sides of your nose and a quick dust over the top of your nose without re-loading the brush. If you want to blend it out over to your cheeks and give them a little color go ahead, I do it every day.
Lastly use blush as a contour for under your cheek bones and a highlighter on the top of your cheek bone. I like a shimmery light pink for a highlighter and it should work well on most skin tones. With the blush, get a small amount on your brush and apply under your cheek bone, curving it up slightly as you get closer to the hairline. Now with the highlighter start just below the outer corner of your eye and gently brush on the highlighter working your way toward the apple of your cheek. (I like to use my fingers for the highlighter.) If you smile, you will see you are applying it to the part of the cheek that fills out and lifts up. If you don't like to use pinks, a very light gold, or creamy color will also work as a highlighter, the main thing is it should barely be a shade lighter than your skin tone. The point is that by applying make up a little darker than your skin, you will make the area recede (your nose, double chin and below the cheek bone). The highlighter being slightly lighter than your skin will make that area more prominent. The combination of the two will give you some killer looking cheek bones. (Although not to the extent of Cruella DeVil, I promise.)
As with all make up application techniques they take practice before you will be comfortable and efficient with them. They sound a little more intimidating than they really are. I really hope every one tries the white eyeliner, it will amaze you.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Oh Jeez!
My husband and I don't agree on a lot of things but sometimes I think he says things just to make me stop and think, "Huh?" For example, the other day I needed to go to the store but I needed to shower first, dry my hair, put my make up on and get dressed, whatever. He says, "Why cant you just go like that?" My reply, "You mean with dirty, sweaty boy band hair and smelly work out clothes?". "Yeah" he says, "You look fine." I then tell him, after thinking huh, "You know I don't go out like that." (Which he does.) We have had this conversation, it feels like a million times. Every time he does not understand why I can't just go out like that, why I even care.
I have told him so many times that I just don't like going out in public looking like I don't care. It's not that I am really vain, it's just that I take pride in the way I look and dress. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. It's not like I'm going in an evening gown with over the top makeup and hair. It is literally just styling my hair and basic make up and no ill-flattering sweats, those are my personal rules for going out in public. Plus I like to look good for Nick and I do feel better about my self when I have put in the effort. It isn't just that it makes me more attractive (in my opinion), it's that I deserve to do those little things for myself that I enjoy. For crying out loud it was my full time profession to do hair and make up. I enjoy being a woman and all that goes along with it. Now I am not saying that I cant go out in public with out make up or my hair in a ponytail (when I had enough hair to do so), I have, I just don't like to look sloppy. I do care what I look like so why would I want to be perceived like I don't. (Besides what if you run into someone you know?) Nick cannot grasp this concept at all. When he gets irritated with this policy of mine, I just smile and say something along the lines of, "Then you shouldn't have married a hair dresser" or "You knew I was like this before we got married, don't expect it to change now".
I think if I did stop caring about my appearance, it would bother him. Like he wasn't worth getting dolled up for. I want to look good for him just as much as I want to look good for me. He says I look good bare faced and in sweats, while I disagree that is not my best look, I have to love him for it. On this we will agree, to disagree.
I have told him so many times that I just don't like going out in public looking like I don't care. It's not that I am really vain, it's just that I take pride in the way I look and dress. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. It's not like I'm going in an evening gown with over the top makeup and hair. It is literally just styling my hair and basic make up and no ill-flattering sweats, those are my personal rules for going out in public. Plus I like to look good for Nick and I do feel better about my self when I have put in the effort. It isn't just that it makes me more attractive (in my opinion), it's that I deserve to do those little things for myself that I enjoy. For crying out loud it was my full time profession to do hair and make up. I enjoy being a woman and all that goes along with it. Now I am not saying that I cant go out in public with out make up or my hair in a ponytail (when I had enough hair to do so), I have, I just don't like to look sloppy. I do care what I look like so why would I want to be perceived like I don't. (Besides what if you run into someone you know?) Nick cannot grasp this concept at all. When he gets irritated with this policy of mine, I just smile and say something along the lines of, "Then you shouldn't have married a hair dresser" or "You knew I was like this before we got married, don't expect it to change now".
I think if I did stop caring about my appearance, it would bother him. Like he wasn't worth getting dolled up for. I want to look good for him just as much as I want to look good for me. He says I look good bare faced and in sweats, while I disagree that is not my best look, I have to love him for it. On this we will agree, to disagree.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Disney Magic
The magic of Disney movies never gets old for me. "Tangled" is on for what is probably the thousandth time in the last month and it still cracks me up. For those of you who haven't seen it, it's actually really funny. Even my husband laughs and he does not willing watch animated movies. Disney films aren't always that funny, sure there are some exceptions; "Aladdin", "The Lion King", anything that was a Disney Pixar film. However mostly Disney movies are some form of tragedy followed by a happily ever after ending. More recently however Disney films have thrown a few more chuckles into the mix.
Speaking of "Tangled" it is actually Disney's version of Rapunzel, the girl that is kidnapped, locked in a tower and has REALLY long hair. I think my favorite line in the whole movie is made by Flynn Rider, "Frying pans, who knew, right?" To understand that quote and to really find it humorous you will have to watch the film. It's so much better in the film.
Another really good one is "The Princess and the Frog" it is a more recent Disney film which is also very funny. It tells you the story of what happens to a frog prince when he doesn't kiss an actual princess. It's a little bit of a case of mistaken identity, a lot of voodoo and its set in New Orleans and the surrounding bayous. Watch out for Ray, the firefly, and his accent. It is great.
Something else that you get in most Disney films is the music. "The Princess and the Frog" has great songs as does "Tangled". It certainly gets Ella's attention and she will immediately start dancing. That is just another reason I love them so much, when they start singing she gets so excited and shakes that little diapered butt. I should really just get the soundtracks, hey, now I'm thinking!
There is just something about Disney films that reminds us of being a kid. You get sucked into the story and the animation, it captures your attention. There is always a life lesson learned. They tell you to believe in your dreams. Maybe that is why Disney movies have that special magic. Not only are they telling you to believe in your dreams, they remind you to have dreams and wishes in the first place.
Speaking of "Tangled" it is actually Disney's version of Rapunzel, the girl that is kidnapped, locked in a tower and has REALLY long hair. I think my favorite line in the whole movie is made by Flynn Rider, "Frying pans, who knew, right?" To understand that quote and to really find it humorous you will have to watch the film. It's so much better in the film.
Another really good one is "The Princess and the Frog" it is a more recent Disney film which is also very funny. It tells you the story of what happens to a frog prince when he doesn't kiss an actual princess. It's a little bit of a case of mistaken identity, a lot of voodoo and its set in New Orleans and the surrounding bayous. Watch out for Ray, the firefly, and his accent. It is great.
Something else that you get in most Disney films is the music. "The Princess and the Frog" has great songs as does "Tangled". It certainly gets Ella's attention and she will immediately start dancing. That is just another reason I love them so much, when they start singing she gets so excited and shakes that little diapered butt. I should really just get the soundtracks, hey, now I'm thinking!
There is just something about Disney films that reminds us of being a kid. You get sucked into the story and the animation, it captures your attention. There is always a life lesson learned. They tell you to believe in your dreams. Maybe that is why Disney movies have that special magic. Not only are they telling you to believe in your dreams, they remind you to have dreams and wishes in the first place.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
It's Hard To Eat Healthy
I want to be a healthy eater. I want to enjoy fruits and vegetables more often. I also want to cook more meals from scratch. Why is this difficult, you might be thinking? Because it is so expensive to have a good amount of fresh fruits and vegetables on hand. Yes, frozen veggies aren't too bad, but most fruit gets so mushy, and don't even get me started on frozen raspberries. Also frozen fruit really isn't that much cheaper than fresh, in my opinion. Lean, free range, grass fed meats are also more expensive. Plus processed and packaged, readily available foods do taste really good, and they are EVERYWHERE. They are almost impossible to avoid. I also have a husband who just loves processed foods and really isn't so concerned with foods that we eat. He is also fortunate enough to have a high metabolism so he has no reason to give up junk food. He also doesn't seem to have any health problems, yet. If it comes out of a wrapper, bag or a box, he loves it.
The amount of processed foods we eat, really takes a toll on our bodies. Refined foods make our insulin levels soar. Insulin is the hormone that is responsible for how we store the foods we consume. Refined and processed foods are mainly to blame for the obesity, diabetes and heart disease problem in America. Poor diet and nutrition also increases the risk of cancer. (I know it seems everything causes cancer but why add to it?) Meats that are filled with hormones, manufactured oils, fats and foods, refined carbohydrates and sugar, that is the common American diet. Our bodies do not know how to process these artificial and refined foods, and they react accordingly. Most of our hormone levels are completely out of balance. Another problem we as Americans have, we don't eat any real fats. Everything is low fat, but let me tell you its the low fat diets that are making us fat. Why? It goes back to all the sugar we end up consuming. Generally the more "low fat" something is the more sugars it has in it, not to mention high sodium levels. Also most refined cereals, breads, crackers, and white rice turns into sugar in your body and those are mostly considered to be low fat. You then end up getting it processed and stored as fat in your body. That is why you don't stay full after eating refined foods. If you had consumed natural fats at the same time they would help in slowing down the breakdown of the sugars and keep you fuller longer. Sugar is what is making our country fat.
The biggest reason I want to turn our home into a "healthy" home is cancer, heart disease, obesity, diabetes, high cholesterol and high blood pressure all run in mine and Nick's families. Needless to say I worry about Ella and what will happen with her health if I don't teach her balanced, healthy, nutrient rich eating habits. I do not want to ever have to see her go through what so many kids go through, being teased and tormented for their weight. I also want her to enjoy and like the foods that are good for her. I am trying to prevent the health problems that run rampant through our family and society. I also want to be healthy, I want to keep up with my toddler. I want to take care of my body because when you do, it also takes care of you. When you give your body what it needs, you will not only look good on the outside, you will look good on the inside. I will also be keeping my fingers crossed that natural foods and fresh fruits and veggies go down in price. (So unlikely I know, blame wishful thinking.) That will help immensely for me and the entire population. If only I can get my husband on board.
A great resource for learning about how foods affect our bodies and our hormone levels is a book by Dr. Micheal Aziz called "The Perfect 10 Diet" you can find it on Amazon, I have the kindle addition. If anyone has any other suggestions, please post it in a comment.
The amount of processed foods we eat, really takes a toll on our bodies. Refined foods make our insulin levels soar. Insulin is the hormone that is responsible for how we store the foods we consume. Refined and processed foods are mainly to blame for the obesity, diabetes and heart disease problem in America. Poor diet and nutrition also increases the risk of cancer. (I know it seems everything causes cancer but why add to it?) Meats that are filled with hormones, manufactured oils, fats and foods, refined carbohydrates and sugar, that is the common American diet. Our bodies do not know how to process these artificial and refined foods, and they react accordingly. Most of our hormone levels are completely out of balance. Another problem we as Americans have, we don't eat any real fats. Everything is low fat, but let me tell you its the low fat diets that are making us fat. Why? It goes back to all the sugar we end up consuming. Generally the more "low fat" something is the more sugars it has in it, not to mention high sodium levels. Also most refined cereals, breads, crackers, and white rice turns into sugar in your body and those are mostly considered to be low fat. You then end up getting it processed and stored as fat in your body. That is why you don't stay full after eating refined foods. If you had consumed natural fats at the same time they would help in slowing down the breakdown of the sugars and keep you fuller longer. Sugar is what is making our country fat.
The biggest reason I want to turn our home into a "healthy" home is cancer, heart disease, obesity, diabetes, high cholesterol and high blood pressure all run in mine and Nick's families. Needless to say I worry about Ella and what will happen with her health if I don't teach her balanced, healthy, nutrient rich eating habits. I do not want to ever have to see her go through what so many kids go through, being teased and tormented for their weight. I also want her to enjoy and like the foods that are good for her. I am trying to prevent the health problems that run rampant through our family and society. I also want to be healthy, I want to keep up with my toddler. I want to take care of my body because when you do, it also takes care of you. When you give your body what it needs, you will not only look good on the outside, you will look good on the inside. I will also be keeping my fingers crossed that natural foods and fresh fruits and veggies go down in price. (So unlikely I know, blame wishful thinking.) That will help immensely for me and the entire population. If only I can get my husband on board.
A great resource for learning about how foods affect our bodies and our hormone levels is a book by Dr. Micheal Aziz called "The Perfect 10 Diet" you can find it on Amazon, I have the kindle addition. If anyone has any other suggestions, please post it in a comment.
Monday, January 16, 2012
Why I Love Harry Potter
I fell in love with Harry Potter roughly 10 years ago. I was babysitting two fabulous kids and they wanted to watch the movie "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone". I hadn't even heard of it. I agreed and we sat down to watch. Within 20 minutes I was completely enthralled. That first film completely sucked me in. Before you know it this neglected orphan is thrust into a world of mystery, danger and magic. He doesn't know who or even what he is. As a character, you are cheering for him as you watch him triumph. You want him to do well in everything he comes up against because he isn't your typical hero.
Needless to say after watching that first film, I just had to read the books. I went to the library and checked the first four books out. (They were what was released at the time.) I read all four books in five days. I had never read something so well written and engaging. As an immense book lover my whole life, how did I not hear about these? They were fabulous. I remember staying up late and getting up early just to read. The first three took me just over three days to finish, and the fourth took almost two days. I was completely hooked. I know I am not alone in my love for Potter.
The completed series didn't disappoint in my eyes. I have lost count of all the times I have read this beloved series. It never gets old or boring. Every time I read them I remember why I love them. They are a truly exciting read. Suspenseful, funny, tragic, and so enjoyable. For most people I have spoke to about the books they agree. It is a wonderful reading experience. You don't need to be a kid or fantasy fiction fan to appreciate the wonderful world of Harry Potter.
On to the films..... While I love the films and watch them frequently, I feel only the first two films really represented the books. With every film they strayed a little farther off the path layed down by J.K. Rowling and the books. I know she approved the films but I really think they should have stayed a little closer to the books. As all book readers wish they would. I dont know anyone who reads books who can sit through a film based on a book and not say "that wasn't how it was in the book". I understand what BASED on a book means, but it's still disappointing when it's some of your favorite parts that get cut. Still the movies alone have brought in a lot of Harry Potter fans.
I may be a little over excited when it comes to Harry Potter (as my friends and family will testify to) but the best thing is I am not alone. The whole world is in love with Harry Potter, when was the last time a book and movie series was made into an amusement park? Also one of the big reasons I love Harry? This series encouraged so many kids and even adults to read. It brought families together as parents read to thir kids. As a big believer in the power of books, I love a book that encourages readers to come back again and again. That is what only a great story can do.
Needless to say after watching that first film, I just had to read the books. I went to the library and checked the first four books out. (They were what was released at the time.) I read all four books in five days. I had never read something so well written and engaging. As an immense book lover my whole life, how did I not hear about these? They were fabulous. I remember staying up late and getting up early just to read. The first three took me just over three days to finish, and the fourth took almost two days. I was completely hooked. I know I am not alone in my love for Potter.
The completed series didn't disappoint in my eyes. I have lost count of all the times I have read this beloved series. It never gets old or boring. Every time I read them I remember why I love them. They are a truly exciting read. Suspenseful, funny, tragic, and so enjoyable. For most people I have spoke to about the books they agree. It is a wonderful reading experience. You don't need to be a kid or fantasy fiction fan to appreciate the wonderful world of Harry Potter.
On to the films..... While I love the films and watch them frequently, I feel only the first two films really represented the books. With every film they strayed a little farther off the path layed down by J.K. Rowling and the books. I know she approved the films but I really think they should have stayed a little closer to the books. As all book readers wish they would. I dont know anyone who reads books who can sit through a film based on a book and not say "that wasn't how it was in the book". I understand what BASED on a book means, but it's still disappointing when it's some of your favorite parts that get cut. Still the movies alone have brought in a lot of Harry Potter fans.
I may be a little over excited when it comes to Harry Potter (as my friends and family will testify to) but the best thing is I am not alone. The whole world is in love with Harry Potter, when was the last time a book and movie series was made into an amusement park? Also one of the big reasons I love Harry? This series encouraged so many kids and even adults to read. It brought families together as parents read to thir kids. As a big believer in the power of books, I love a book that encourages readers to come back again and again. That is what only a great story can do.
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Short Hair vs. Long Hair
I recently had my hair cut short, like pixie cut, short. It was about shoulder length before. I really love it short, it's so easy, it shortened my hair routine to 10 minutes. However as someone who has also had really long hair (to my waist) throughout my life. My hair was long when I had Ella and I had it cut into a bob, shortly after she was born. It was so much easier. I love having long hair but I have really thick hair which turns into taking forever to dry and style it. Sometimes I really miss my long hair, but when it is really long, I miss all the things I can do with short hair. It's a horrible cycle of indecision brought on by my impulsive personality and the curse of being a cosmetologist. You always want to try every style out there. Which I have, colors too.
With long hair, it has this appeal. Long hair is (usually) associated with being sexy. Think "bedroom hair" when was the last time that phrase referred to any woman with a short hair cut. Why, you may ask? Because when your short hair has been in the bedroom for a while (whether you're sleeping or not) it is NOT sexy. (More on that later.) Long hair is also linked with elegance. Long hair can be put up in extravagant updos and styled into beautiful waves and curls. On short hair you resemble a child if it isn't done exactly right, or possibly a poodle. Either way as a grown woman, not the look you're going for. Long hair also is great on a day you don't want to do your hair at all. Ponytails, braids and buns all work great for long hair. Long hair, if you are lucky to have straight or slightly wavy hair, is easy on days your not going to wash it or if you went to bed with it wet. All you have to do is brush it out in the morning. (I did that almost my entire pregnancy, so easy!) If you want to get ready in a hurry but need to start at step one, the shower, not always so great. It used to take me an hour and a half from getting in the shower to being ready to walk out the door with my long hair. Drying and styling time took at least 50 minutes, just silly.
Now with short hair the drying and styling time is less than 10 minutes, the downfall is it needs to be done every day. I promised we would return to the topic of why "bedroom hair" is not sexy for short hair. The answer is this, when I wake up in the morning or even lay down for a short period of time, I resemble a 1990's pop star from a boy band. That is not sexy when you are a woman and your husband is straight. There is no slightly tousled look when you get up with short hair. Slightly tousled you have done to yourself, the bed did not do that for you. Now I must say that besides the morning hair, I love my short hair. To me it says I am confident and sassy. That I don't have to follow the "normal" ideal of femininity and still feel beautiful. I feel like short hair has a maturity level to it. Maybe because for most women to be comfortable with this short of a style you really have to know and be comfortable with yourself, which so often comes with age and experience. Although slightly more limited than long hair, I can still style my short hair in different ways. Like, where do I want to part it today? Bangs out or pinned back? Maybe a headband or flower clip? Decisions, decisions.
Both really short hair and really long hair has their pro's and con's. It's fun to be able to change your look on a day to day basis. As women we have the luxury that we don't have to look the same every day. I encourage everyone to try a new style or put in a hair accessory that you didn't think you would like. You might surprise yourself by liking the change. Watch in a month I'll decide to grow my hair out again! Impulsive, I tell you!!
With long hair, it has this appeal. Long hair is (usually) associated with being sexy. Think "bedroom hair" when was the last time that phrase referred to any woman with a short hair cut. Why, you may ask? Because when your short hair has been in the bedroom for a while (whether you're sleeping or not) it is NOT sexy. (More on that later.) Long hair is also linked with elegance. Long hair can be put up in extravagant updos and styled into beautiful waves and curls. On short hair you resemble a child if it isn't done exactly right, or possibly a poodle. Either way as a grown woman, not the look you're going for. Long hair also is great on a day you don't want to do your hair at all. Ponytails, braids and buns all work great for long hair. Long hair, if you are lucky to have straight or slightly wavy hair, is easy on days your not going to wash it or if you went to bed with it wet. All you have to do is brush it out in the morning. (I did that almost my entire pregnancy, so easy!) If you want to get ready in a hurry but need to start at step one, the shower, not always so great. It used to take me an hour and a half from getting in the shower to being ready to walk out the door with my long hair. Drying and styling time took at least 50 minutes, just silly.
Now with short hair the drying and styling time is less than 10 minutes, the downfall is it needs to be done every day. I promised we would return to the topic of why "bedroom hair" is not sexy for short hair. The answer is this, when I wake up in the morning or even lay down for a short period of time, I resemble a 1990's pop star from a boy band. That is not sexy when you are a woman and your husband is straight. There is no slightly tousled look when you get up with short hair. Slightly tousled you have done to yourself, the bed did not do that for you. Now I must say that besides the morning hair, I love my short hair. To me it says I am confident and sassy. That I don't have to follow the "normal" ideal of femininity and still feel beautiful. I feel like short hair has a maturity level to it. Maybe because for most women to be comfortable with this short of a style you really have to know and be comfortable with yourself, which so often comes with age and experience. Although slightly more limited than long hair, I can still style my short hair in different ways. Like, where do I want to part it today? Bangs out or pinned back? Maybe a headband or flower clip? Decisions, decisions.
Both really short hair and really long hair has their pro's and con's. It's fun to be able to change your look on a day to day basis. As women we have the luxury that we don't have to look the same every day. I encourage everyone to try a new style or put in a hair accessory that you didn't think you would like. You might surprise yourself by liking the change. Watch in a month I'll decide to grow my hair out again! Impulsive, I tell you!!
Friday, January 13, 2012
Please Sleep Kid!!!
For two days Ella Claire will not take a nap. Yesterday I put her down and she only slept for an hour and that was it! After she woke up she just sat there in her crib, talking to herself, playing with her lovey, and kicking the mattress (which apparently is super fun). I wasn't going in there just in case she went back to sleep and she wasn't crying or fussing to come out anyway, she never does. I let her sit in there for about an hour and finally decided, she is NOT going back to sleep. Ella does this extremely high pitched scream, that shows she is really happy and in the mood to be silly, that is when I went in. That scream meant we had reached the point of no return and this not napping nap was just way too much of a good time.
Moving on to today, this morning she got up an hour and fifteen minutes early. I started hearing her talk to herself at 6:45, this morning. (Yes my kid usually sleeps until at least 8:00am, go ahead and hate me now) At 7:30 I decide we will just be up for the day. Now also this morning I had to go to the doctor for my annual exam and my depo shot, (because one surprise was enough in my lifetime and I certainly know I can get pregnant now). While I was gone Nick tried to put her down for a nap, he left her in there for forty-five minutes and still nothing. When I got home I thought she looked tired and I tried to lay her down. I gave her fifteen minutes to fall asleep when she didn't I went and got her. We needed to go get groceries anyway.
On the way to the store, she stays awake the whole time. I run into one store for fifteen minutes alone, while she is in the car with Nick, still wide awake when I get back. We get to Target and she is good the whole time. I didn't even see a yawn. We check out, get into the car and we are barely out of the parking lot, when she conks out. Now it's only a ten minute drive home and she slept the whole way but ten minutes is hardly a nap for an almost fifteen month old. So of course I have to take her out of her car seat because it's really cold out and I am not leaving the car running.
She wakes up, still drowsy, I am thinking: Great, I can lay her back down, in her crib and she will go right back to sleep, she looks so tired. So wrong, doesn't even cover it. I let her be silly in there for an hour, she didn't even sleep for five minutes! It all started with laying on her belly, kicking her feet REALLY fast. All I could here was thumping at a speed of sixty thumps per second, thump thump thump. It was like someone was playing really loud bass music out of their car but in her room. (You all know the cars I am talking about, where you hear the bass before you can even see the car.) Then the standing at the rail started. We still have a drop side crib so she will "rattle" it. (Don't worry, the release is under the crib and it has to be lifted before it will go down. I have always liked drop side cribs.) Followed by throwing things out of the crib; socks, lovey, nuk, the other lovey and lastly the glowing musical seahorse, Squirt. She sure was excited when I walked through that door. ( I sooo love that!)
Lastly, she was so tired this evening that bed time was an hour early. Fortunately for me bedtime has never been a problem. She is usually out in ten minutes, tops. I know it could be SO much worse, I am just worried she will get run down and sick. Plus who wants a crabby baby. I have just been spoiled with a good sleeper and I have no idea if it's just her or if I did something right in my sleep training. Yes, I know, hate away. I am really lucky.
Sweet Dreams!
Moving on to today, this morning she got up an hour and fifteen minutes early. I started hearing her talk to herself at 6:45, this morning. (Yes my kid usually sleeps until at least 8:00am, go ahead and hate me now) At 7:30 I decide we will just be up for the day. Now also this morning I had to go to the doctor for my annual exam and my depo shot, (because one surprise was enough in my lifetime and I certainly know I can get pregnant now). While I was gone Nick tried to put her down for a nap, he left her in there for forty-five minutes and still nothing. When I got home I thought she looked tired and I tried to lay her down. I gave her fifteen minutes to fall asleep when she didn't I went and got her. We needed to go get groceries anyway.
On the way to the store, she stays awake the whole time. I run into one store for fifteen minutes alone, while she is in the car with Nick, still wide awake when I get back. We get to Target and she is good the whole time. I didn't even see a yawn. We check out, get into the car and we are barely out of the parking lot, when she conks out. Now it's only a ten minute drive home and she slept the whole way but ten minutes is hardly a nap for an almost fifteen month old. So of course I have to take her out of her car seat because it's really cold out and I am not leaving the car running.
She wakes up, still drowsy, I am thinking: Great, I can lay her back down, in her crib and she will go right back to sleep, she looks so tired. So wrong, doesn't even cover it. I let her be silly in there for an hour, she didn't even sleep for five minutes! It all started with laying on her belly, kicking her feet REALLY fast. All I could here was thumping at a speed of sixty thumps per second, thump thump thump. It was like someone was playing really loud bass music out of their car but in her room. (You all know the cars I am talking about, where you hear the bass before you can even see the car.) Then the standing at the rail started. We still have a drop side crib so she will "rattle" it. (Don't worry, the release is under the crib and it has to be lifted before it will go down. I have always liked drop side cribs.) Followed by throwing things out of the crib; socks, lovey, nuk, the other lovey and lastly the glowing musical seahorse, Squirt. She sure was excited when I walked through that door. ( I sooo love that!)
Lastly, she was so tired this evening that bed time was an hour early. Fortunately for me bedtime has never been a problem. She is usually out in ten minutes, tops. I know it could be SO much worse, I am just worried she will get run down and sick. Plus who wants a crabby baby. I have just been spoiled with a good sleeper and I have no idea if it's just her or if I did something right in my sleep training. Yes, I know, hate away. I am really lucky.
Sweet Dreams!
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Weight Loss Challenge
My older sister convinced me to join a weight loss challenge where we live. I didn't really want to do it but I am told I need to get out of the house without Ella sometimes. So this is about one hour every Wednesday night for ten weeks. I can handle that, I thought and I am always looking for ways to improve my health and eating habits. I want to be a good role model for Ella for one and I want to be healthy so I can keep up with her. Plus who doesn't want to lose weight?
Last night was week seven and so far I have lost eight pounds total, now that might not seem like much but hey this is over the holidays. Everyone is asking what I have been doing and I'm not doing anything special, no pop for one but just eating a balance of foods. The big thing is I have been doing Yoga and Pilate's almost daily. Each routine is less than thirty minutes so it's pretty easy to fit into a schedule. For those of you who have never tried it, I strongly recommend both. They are low impact and fairly gentle on your body. I have back problems and I am not supposed to do anything high impact. They both help with getting that long and lean look, improve flexibility and give you more energy because you aren't so tired when you finish. They loosen up the body and help with stiffness and soreness, which is so common in these colder months. Yoga also helps with stress and giving your mind focus as most yoga practices end in meditation. Usually it is a guided meditation and they have you think of your intention for the day (in the a.m.) or reflect and re-visit your intention from the day (p.m.). That always helps me remember why I am doing this challenge and by extension why I am exercising in the first place.
So all the benefits I have gotten so far from this weight loss challenge are; better eating habits, more energy, exercising regularly, weight loss and sleeping better. Oh yeah and the top three "losers" get cash prizes, whoopee, I hope I win!!!
Last night was week seven and so far I have lost eight pounds total, now that might not seem like much but hey this is over the holidays. Everyone is asking what I have been doing and I'm not doing anything special, no pop for one but just eating a balance of foods. The big thing is I have been doing Yoga and Pilate's almost daily. Each routine is less than thirty minutes so it's pretty easy to fit into a schedule. For those of you who have never tried it, I strongly recommend both. They are low impact and fairly gentle on your body. I have back problems and I am not supposed to do anything high impact. They both help with getting that long and lean look, improve flexibility and give you more energy because you aren't so tired when you finish. They loosen up the body and help with stiffness and soreness, which is so common in these colder months. Yoga also helps with stress and giving your mind focus as most yoga practices end in meditation. Usually it is a guided meditation and they have you think of your intention for the day (in the a.m.) or reflect and re-visit your intention from the day (p.m.). That always helps me remember why I am doing this challenge and by extension why I am exercising in the first place.
So all the benefits I have gotten so far from this weight loss challenge are; better eating habits, more energy, exercising regularly, weight loss and sleeping better. Oh yeah and the top three "losers" get cash prizes, whoopee, I hope I win!!!
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Target Red Debit Card
I have one more reason to love Target Stores these days. Target for a long time had the Red Card, their own credit card. Now they offer the Target Red Debit Card, a card that works just like your checking debit card from your primary checking account at your bank. The incentive for using the Target Debit Card, is just like the Red Card, you get 5% back on all purchases. Wow!
If you are only an occasional target shopper, not such a big deal. If you buy almost everything at Target (like myself) groceries, kids stuff, books, movies, personal care items, medicine cabinet items, cleaning products, that adds up to alot in one year. As a person who is always looking to stretch that dollar, this is awesome! So after I use whatever coupons I have rounded up, get my total and pay using my Target Debit Card, Target will give me back 5% of my total, right into my checking. No interest, no fees, unless you use the card and you don't have money in your account, but obviously everyone knows they shouldn't do that anyway.
Also if you are an online shopper, the Red Debit Card is nice for you, not only will you get your 5% back you will also get free shipping, everytime. No minimum orders. Like what you hear, I did too. One more great perk for this card and all Target Cards is Target will donate 1% of all your purchases to the qualifing K-12 school of your choice, so your child's school or the local elementary school if you'd like.
I feel this is news worth sharing, everyone can benefit from getting a little cash back. To apply doesn't take more than a few minutes and you start saving the day you are approved. Target's website has the information or go to your local store.
https://redcard.target.com/redcard/content/rcw_benefits_tgt_rewards
If you are only an occasional target shopper, not such a big deal. If you buy almost everything at Target (like myself) groceries, kids stuff, books, movies, personal care items, medicine cabinet items, cleaning products, that adds up to alot in one year. As a person who is always looking to stretch that dollar, this is awesome! So after I use whatever coupons I have rounded up, get my total and pay using my Target Debit Card, Target will give me back 5% of my total, right into my checking. No interest, no fees, unless you use the card and you don't have money in your account, but obviously everyone knows they shouldn't do that anyway.
Also if you are an online shopper, the Red Debit Card is nice for you, not only will you get your 5% back you will also get free shipping, everytime. No minimum orders. Like what you hear, I did too. One more great perk for this card and all Target Cards is Target will donate 1% of all your purchases to the qualifing K-12 school of your choice, so your child's school or the local elementary school if you'd like.
I feel this is news worth sharing, everyone can benefit from getting a little cash back. To apply doesn't take more than a few minutes and you start saving the day you are approved. Target's website has the information or go to your local store.
https://redcard.target.com/redcard/content/rcw_benefits_tgt_rewards
Monday, January 9, 2012
Ho-Hum Housework
I absolutely love having a clean house, but I absolutely hate how quickly it seems to get dirty. I know I speak for everyone there. The phrase "I just cleaned this yesterday!" is heard a lot out of my mouth in our home. Between a toddler, a husband and a dog, crumbs are my biggest challenge. Needless to say, I would die without my vacuum. I think I have the only dog in America that does not clean crumbs off the floor, oh no my dog even makes his own. Now I feel keeping the house clean is my "job" because I am fortunate enough to be the one home with Ella. Trust me, I have the easy job in our family. Nick helps out too which I always appreciate and thank him for. When we first moved in together he was the cleaner, not me.
Back to having a clean house. It's great, I find I feel more relaxed, at ease, at peace, in a better mood. However you want to phrase it, I think the majority of the population feels that way. I really enjoy it because I am home so much. When I am done with the housework I decided to tackle that day, I usually look around and enjoy it for a few minutes. I certainly know it's not going to last. I usually have to vacuum at least three times a week, dust twice a week, bathrooms once a week and the kitchen seems like a never-ending task. I know you all can relate.
What I have learned staying home with Ella is it's alot harder to keep a house clean when people are always in it. I have also learned taking just a little extra time each day for little things makes a big difference on those days when I have the bigger jobs to get through. Such as putting the dishes in the dish washer right away instead of stacking them. Putting the clothes in the hamper right when they are taken off instead of on the floor. I know a lot of people dont but making the bed actually makes you feel like you are in a cleaner, more orderly enviroment. Not to mention it might help keep spiders out of your sheets, just something to think about. Also just putting things away as soon as you are finished with them helps me. Wiping off the counter in the bathroom after I put my make-up on and do my hair. Oh yeah, and rinsing the sink after brushing your teeth. We are talking a minute or two for all those tasks but it really adds up and makes a difference in your home. It also makes it easier to do the "big" clean when the time comes. Older kids can be taught to do a few of those things also, like rinsing the sink after brushing, dishes in the dish washer and beds. Easier said than done, I know. (I have an older neice and nephew.)
Finally, on those days I just dont want to clean, I make a list. Lists really do help you feel like you are getting stuff done because you get that satisfying task of crossing it off your list. Before you know it your whole list is crossed off and the rest of the day can be enjoyed without further chores. Obviously if you're at home with your kids, it's not always THAT simple. If Ella is playing by herself I try to get as much done before she decides she wants a playmate for a while. Nap time is another great time to get your stuff done, obviously. I always try to make the most out of the hours Ella is sleeping so that when she is awake all we really need to do is play. Besides I know that the reason I am home is her and not housework. Happy cleaning!
Back to having a clean house. It's great, I find I feel more relaxed, at ease, at peace, in a better mood. However you want to phrase it, I think the majority of the population feels that way. I really enjoy it because I am home so much. When I am done with the housework I decided to tackle that day, I usually look around and enjoy it for a few minutes. I certainly know it's not going to last. I usually have to vacuum at least three times a week, dust twice a week, bathrooms once a week and the kitchen seems like a never-ending task. I know you all can relate.
What I have learned staying home with Ella is it's alot harder to keep a house clean when people are always in it. I have also learned taking just a little extra time each day for little things makes a big difference on those days when I have the bigger jobs to get through. Such as putting the dishes in the dish washer right away instead of stacking them. Putting the clothes in the hamper right when they are taken off instead of on the floor. I know a lot of people dont but making the bed actually makes you feel like you are in a cleaner, more orderly enviroment. Not to mention it might help keep spiders out of your sheets, just something to think about. Also just putting things away as soon as you are finished with them helps me. Wiping off the counter in the bathroom after I put my make-up on and do my hair. Oh yeah, and rinsing the sink after brushing your teeth. We are talking a minute or two for all those tasks but it really adds up and makes a difference in your home. It also makes it easier to do the "big" clean when the time comes. Older kids can be taught to do a few of those things also, like rinsing the sink after brushing, dishes in the dish washer and beds. Easier said than done, I know. (I have an older neice and nephew.)
Finally, on those days I just dont want to clean, I make a list. Lists really do help you feel like you are getting stuff done because you get that satisfying task of crossing it off your list. Before you know it your whole list is crossed off and the rest of the day can be enjoyed without further chores. Obviously if you're at home with your kids, it's not always THAT simple. If Ella is playing by herself I try to get as much done before she decides she wants a playmate for a while. Nap time is another great time to get your stuff done, obviously. I always try to make the most out of the hours Ella is sleeping so that when she is awake all we really need to do is play. Besides I know that the reason I am home is her and not housework. Happy cleaning!
Saturday, January 7, 2012
Looking Back
For some reason a certain day in my not so distant past kept popping into my head today. It was the day I found out I was pregnant. Maybe it's because that was almost two years ago and I can not believe how quickly time flies. Especially when I look at Ella and realize how much she has already grown and changed in what seems like hardly any time at all.
Back to that day, which now I know was one of the best days of my life, but let me tell you it sure didn't feel that way at the time. A word to the wise if you're not expecting that little stick to tell you "you're pregnant", do not take that test alone. I will repeat, not trying to be pregnant and taking the test, use the buddy system. What happened to me was I fully expected that test to be negative and my "monthly visitor" would come the following day. It was my husband who said I should take the test. I didn't think it was necessary. I couldn't be pregnant, but I was. (Although in hindsight I should have realized of course I could be because we weren't taking precautions to prevent getting pregnant.) I didn't take it well. It was 6:00 in the morning and my husband had already started his work day and I could not call him. I was hysterical, not just crying and a little shock. I was bawling my eyes out, my hands were shaking and I couldn't stop pacing. All I really wanted was a cigarette but darn it I cant smoke now, there is a little person in there, what if that one cigarette damaged my fetus???
I called my sister, cried and said a few incoherent sentences. Fortunately she gave me the test the night before so she knew why I was crying. She said she would come over after she dropped her kids off at daycare but she couldn't bring them until 6:30. While I waited for her, I called in to my job stating I had an emergency. Then I sat at the top of the stairs in my bathrobe, crying, waiting for my sister. I even called her at 6:30 to make sure she was at daycare to drop them off and get to my house. After she got there and calmed me down a little I decided I needed to talk to Nick.
I was afraid to tell him, I thought he would be upset. Which truthfully was part of the reason I was so crazed. I had just gotten back to work from a two month medical leave and now I was pregnant??? I couldn't wait until he was on his break though, I called his work to leave a message to have Nick call me. The receptionist asked if it was an emergency and my response was "Kinda". He called me within a minute or two. With my sister holding my hand, I hysterically sobbing told him "I-I... t-took the... t-test... a-and it was... p-p-positive". All he said was "It was? OK". Then I told him I was sorry (yeah like it was only my fault) but he said it was fine. My only question was "Your not mad?" "No" he said "not at all, why would I be?". Boy did I put that cart before the horse. All that worrying over nothing. He didn't even know why I was so upset.
I still wasn't sure how I felt about it though. Did I want a baby? Well to late now smart one, because you are having one. Now having the wonderful big sister that I do, she had the fabulous idea to get out all her old pregnancy books she gave me after my nephew was born. She found a few pages with pictures showing me that the baby looked like the Planter's Peanut. As only my sister can she had me calmed down and actually a little excited. She informed me that she did need to actually go to work at some point and that if I felt better she should go. I reluctantly said I'd be fine.
Nick and I went to the doctor later that day, and confirmed that I was indeed, pregnant. While I wasn't so sure that day it was what I wanted, now I know it was truly one of the best days of my life. I mean, hey, I quit smoking that day! Oh, and I also became a mom.
Back to that day, which now I know was one of the best days of my life, but let me tell you it sure didn't feel that way at the time. A word to the wise if you're not expecting that little stick to tell you "you're pregnant", do not take that test alone. I will repeat, not trying to be pregnant and taking the test, use the buddy system. What happened to me was I fully expected that test to be negative and my "monthly visitor" would come the following day. It was my husband who said I should take the test. I didn't think it was necessary. I couldn't be pregnant, but I was. (Although in hindsight I should have realized of course I could be because we weren't taking precautions to prevent getting pregnant.) I didn't take it well. It was 6:00 in the morning and my husband had already started his work day and I could not call him. I was hysterical, not just crying and a little shock. I was bawling my eyes out, my hands were shaking and I couldn't stop pacing. All I really wanted was a cigarette but darn it I cant smoke now, there is a little person in there, what if that one cigarette damaged my fetus???
I called my sister, cried and said a few incoherent sentences. Fortunately she gave me the test the night before so she knew why I was crying. She said she would come over after she dropped her kids off at daycare but she couldn't bring them until 6:30. While I waited for her, I called in to my job stating I had an emergency. Then I sat at the top of the stairs in my bathrobe, crying, waiting for my sister. I even called her at 6:30 to make sure she was at daycare to drop them off and get to my house. After she got there and calmed me down a little I decided I needed to talk to Nick.
I was afraid to tell him, I thought he would be upset. Which truthfully was part of the reason I was so crazed. I had just gotten back to work from a two month medical leave and now I was pregnant??? I couldn't wait until he was on his break though, I called his work to leave a message to have Nick call me. The receptionist asked if it was an emergency and my response was "Kinda". He called me within a minute or two. With my sister holding my hand, I hysterically sobbing told him "I-I... t-took the... t-test... a-and it was... p-p-positive". All he said was "It was? OK". Then I told him I was sorry (yeah like it was only my fault) but he said it was fine. My only question was "Your not mad?" "No" he said "not at all, why would I be?". Boy did I put that cart before the horse. All that worrying over nothing. He didn't even know why I was so upset.
I still wasn't sure how I felt about it though. Did I want a baby? Well to late now smart one, because you are having one. Now having the wonderful big sister that I do, she had the fabulous idea to get out all her old pregnancy books she gave me after my nephew was born. She found a few pages with pictures showing me that the baby looked like the Planter's Peanut. As only my sister can she had me calmed down and actually a little excited. She informed me that she did need to actually go to work at some point and that if I felt better she should go. I reluctantly said I'd be fine.
Nick and I went to the doctor later that day, and confirmed that I was indeed, pregnant. While I wasn't so sure that day it was what I wanted, now I know it was truly one of the best days of my life. I mean, hey, I quit smoking that day! Oh, and I also became a mom.
Friday, January 6, 2012
Almond Milk?
So I was at the store today, not so different from any other day really, except my husband, Nick was with Ella and me. EVERY TIME he comes with we spend more than planned. I go armed with my little list of a few regular items and he decides he would like to get some candy (so cruel, I'm trying to eat healthy), a pizza, and randomly enough some Silk Almond Milk. I ask "Aaaand you want that because?" He responds with "You know real milk upsets my stomach and yours is pretty much water anyway and I don't like water. Especially for my cereal." All I have to say is "Oh OK." because what I am really thinking will just get me no where, really fast. Like how he will only use it for cereal and not actually drink it like milk.
Now keep in mind we do not have any cereal at the house he will eat because not one of them contains artificial fruit flavoring, marshmallows or a sugar coating. Yes, my husband needs a cartoon character on the box, preferably the ones with a small leprechaun or anyone from Bedrock. I decided not to remind him of this fact because I didn't want to stand there while he picked one out. Plus if he is eating it, Ella will want it and right now she does really well eating those cereals that are good for her and don't have a friendly animated face on the front. I want to keep it that way. Otherwise me eating healthy for the sake of being a good role model is out the window. Then I would just have to eat healthy because it's good for me. I like to pretend that I am that selfless and it's all to better the life of my child. (small sigh)
Even with all that, I like when he comes with. Hey, if he likes the stuff, great. If he will eat it with our good for you cereals, even better.
At least he can still surprise me. Cheers!
Now keep in mind we do not have any cereal at the house he will eat because not one of them contains artificial fruit flavoring, marshmallows or a sugar coating. Yes, my husband needs a cartoon character on the box, preferably the ones with a small leprechaun or anyone from Bedrock. I decided not to remind him of this fact because I didn't want to stand there while he picked one out. Plus if he is eating it, Ella will want it and right now she does really well eating those cereals that are good for her and don't have a friendly animated face on the front. I want to keep it that way. Otherwise me eating healthy for the sake of being a good role model is out the window. Then I would just have to eat healthy because it's good for me. I like to pretend that I am that selfless and it's all to better the life of my child. (small sigh)
Even with all that, I like when he comes with. Hey, if he likes the stuff, great. If he will eat it with our good for you cereals, even better.
At least he can still surprise me. Cheers!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
My toddler is testing me today!!!
So glad it's nap time right now! Ella was testing me at every turn today. I know as a toddler she is and will continue to test those boundries, especially since I am the one home with her (and for that I am grateful). Let's recap, shall we??
First she decided she wanted to keep that very wet diaper that smelled so strongly after she slept in it for twelve hours. Imagine for a moment, if you would, a small person locking there body so it is resembling all the characteristics of a 2x4 and then rolling and twisting in every direction while I struggle to hang on to her extremely small feet. Now repeat for the poopy diaper an hour later.
On to breakfast.....while I am very fortunate that my daughter is a very good eater, she does have a habit of trying to feed the dog. (mind you, we have a toy poodle that weighs 7 pounds, he does not get scraps as they make him sick) She will hear his little toenails clicking on the kitchen floor and knowing he is on his way throw scraps over the side of her high chair. Now I know this is common children feeding the dog. Its the way she does it, I will see her arm extend over the side and tell her "we do not feed the dog" to which she will put the food back on her tray and watch me with that really sweet look on her face. Thats when I have to turn around for one thing or another and then I hear the food hit the floor. Repeat for lunch and snack time.
On to playtime.... One of the things I enjoy so much is to be able to play with Ella all day, every day. Today however she really didn't want to play, or even read books. No, she wanted to pull the cords out of the TV and touch the screen. I am pretty sure I will be removing the TV until thats not quite so much fun, or putting up a fence in my living room.
All that being said and all the other little ways she is testing things (me) today, I am so lucky to have a happy little girl, who rarely cries, and smiles all the time. Days like today just remind me so much that she is her own person and as her mommy, I'm responsible for helping her stay that way.
First she decided she wanted to keep that very wet diaper that smelled so strongly after she slept in it for twelve hours. Imagine for a moment, if you would, a small person locking there body so it is resembling all the characteristics of a 2x4 and then rolling and twisting in every direction while I struggle to hang on to her extremely small feet. Now repeat for the poopy diaper an hour later.
On to breakfast.....while I am very fortunate that my daughter is a very good eater, she does have a habit of trying to feed the dog. (mind you, we have a toy poodle that weighs 7 pounds, he does not get scraps as they make him sick) She will hear his little toenails clicking on the kitchen floor and knowing he is on his way throw scraps over the side of her high chair. Now I know this is common children feeding the dog. Its the way she does it, I will see her arm extend over the side and tell her "we do not feed the dog" to which she will put the food back on her tray and watch me with that really sweet look on her face. Thats when I have to turn around for one thing or another and then I hear the food hit the floor. Repeat for lunch and snack time.
On to playtime.... One of the things I enjoy so much is to be able to play with Ella all day, every day. Today however she really didn't want to play, or even read books. No, she wanted to pull the cords out of the TV and touch the screen. I am pretty sure I will be removing the TV until thats not quite so much fun, or putting up a fence in my living room.
All that being said and all the other little ways she is testing things (me) today, I am so lucky to have a happy little girl, who rarely cries, and smiles all the time. Days like today just remind me so much that she is her own person and as her mommy, I'm responsible for helping her stay that way.
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